Thought on homosexuality and same sex marriage

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aids can come from many things. have sex with too many partners in a short time? that can result in transfering one partner to the next... same as homosexuality essentially. aids can come from many things, not only homosexuality you douchbags.
 

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BEFORE HOMOSEXUALITY.

AIDS was prominent in the monkey population only. last time i checked, monkeys dont share needles with their heroine partners.

so lets think; if monkeys dont share needles, (or humans dont share needles with monkeys), and straight ppl dont screw monkeys, how did aids jump from one species from the next?

hmmmmm lets be logical here people *cough*deduction*cough*
 

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Its ridiculous to see that you baseless travesty of an argument you dare to post here wasn't shred to pieces yet.
Ok, its fairly simple. Last time I checked, heterosexual mate with the opposing sex, which include members of both male and female, which, last time I checked again, tend to be present in every species of the animal kingdom, including apes. Therefore, heterosexuals could have mated with apes as much as homosexuals. There is nothing in homosexual behaviors that would predestine them to mate with animals.

Furthermore, the abnormal behavior that your accusing homosexual to have (mating with animals) is certainly a uttermost rarety, to the point where it cannot justify the worldwide scale of the epidemic.

And what the hell do you mean, before homosexuality ? It always was present, and in a consistently euqal percentage of the population through history.
 

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before it was popluar. homosexuality is at its height: it was never EVER EVER big like it is today, because its so damn supported.
 

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sam_the_man said:
BEFORE HOMOSEXUALITY.

AIDS was prominent in the monkey population only. last time i checked, monkeys dont share needles with their heroine partners.

so lets think; if monkeys dont share needles, (or humans dont share needles with monkeys), and straight ppl dont screw monkeys, how did aids jump from one species from the next?

hmmmmm lets be logical here people *cough*deduction*cough*
Ah gay people don't have sex with monkeys. You got it all wrong.
 

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almost. im starting to like you tipsy, while i disagree with damn near everything that you say you at least make sense.

let me tell you the flaw im seeing in your murder example. yes, murder and homosexuality are both widely considered morally wrong. that does not put them on even terms though. that isnt the only reason murder is illegal. murder takes someones life away, it kills people, taking away their right to life. homosexuality has no effect on anyone else at all.
I'll give a better example since everyone keeps telling me that about it. How about suicide. Suicide is in my opinion morally wrong and is considered wrong by the government, hence the reason assisted suicide is illegal. Suicide is not hurting anyone but than the person commiting it (in a physical sense). Homosexual acts, like suicide are both wrong in my opinion. Suicide hurts the person commiting it physically, while homosexual acts in my opinion hurt that person spiritually. It doesn't matter if your in my religion or not, in my opinion/belief you are still responsible for his judgement when you die.

That's what I am saying. No, of course I cannot 'prove' that your belief is wrong- I am not trying to. I understand where you are coming from. You believe that homosexuality is 'immoral' and is 'a defilement to the sanctity of marriage' and is 'corrupting society'. That is fine, you are more than allowed to believe this. However, as is obvious, homosexuals do not believe, nor care, that you believe all this. That is the beauty of America. We are all entitled to our own beliefs. And, so long as you are not infringing the rights of other citizens, you are allowed to abide by these beliefs.
As I have said before, democracy, nor any another other form of government used works as it is said to on paper. Democracy as I have put before is just a monarchy-of-the-many.

It isn't "my beliefs/morals/ideas against your belifs/morals/ideas." It isn't that at all. It is your beliefs/morals/ideas against the rights/freedoms/choices all American's are allowed. I dont care what your opinions are. This is about what a person is allowed to do with their own private lives underneath the law. And your beliefs ARE NOT to subjugate what another citizen should be able to do with their love.
Well then shouldn't they have a right to kill themself?

alright, how do you propose the aids transferred from the monkeys to the human population? "heterosexual" men dont **** monkeys last time i checked.

So now, the "straight man" has to pay for something he dont deserve, just for living life naturally.
It was spread from monkeys to humans by open blood contact.

It always was present, and in a consistently euqal percentage of the population through history.
Just want to point one thing out. After the fall of Rome the tribes around it took the Christainity of the western empire and actually punished any homosexuality by death. Homosexuality then became more frequent and was accepted during the Renaissance and flourished. Then as time went by it was looked down upon once again.

before it was popluar. homosexuality is at its height: it was never EVER EVER big like it is today, because its so damn supported
The height of homosexuality was the renaissance, not today.
 

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I'll give a better example since everyone keeps telling me that about it. How about suicide. Suicide is in my opinion morally wrong and is considered wrong by the government, hence the reason assisted suicide is illegal. Suicide is not hurting anyone but than the person commiting it (in a physical sense). Homosexual acts, like suicide are both wrong in my opinion. Suicide hurts the person commiting it physically, while homosexual acts in my opinion hurt that person spiritually. It doesn't matter if your in my religion or not, in my opinion/belief you are still responsible for his judgement when you die.

if someone wants to kill themselves, let them. they didnt ask to be put in this world, whose to stop them from leaving it? i dont care what people do to themselves. i care about what they do to other people. as long as your not infringing on someone elses rights, i dont see the problem.
 

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amrtin77 said:
if someone wants to kill themselves, let them. they didnt ask to be put in this world, whose to stop them from leaving it? i dont care what people do to themselves. i care about what they do to other people. as long as your not infringing on someone elses rights, i dont see the problem.
This was more directed at Lights than you because it was just to get the point across that it really is just my values against yours.
 

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Tipsy said:
Well then shouldn't they have a right to kill themself?
I think a person who seriously wants to kill themself, seriously needs psychological help. Do they have a 'right'? Perhaps. If a person kills themself, it is obviously a done deal. It isnt infringing on the rights of anyone else. And you can't really say (maybe say, but not enforce), "It is against the law to kill yourself!" If a person attempts and fails, I do believe that person needs medical help.

Assited suicide and suicide are quite different.


Comparing homsexuality to suicide? :rolleyes
 
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Homosexuality has been the center of some heated discourse lately and frankly, I am getting a little tired of it. Whether the legal affrimation of the decision of two homosexual people to spend the rest of their lives together is called a civil union or marriage is of no consequence. It is mere aesthetics. However, there is no reason why two gay or lesbian life-partners should be denied the special rights accorded to heterosexual life-partners. Denying homosexuals these rights is equivalent to state endorsed religion, and we all know that is not supposed to happen. It is a question of basic civil rights. Would you agree with legislation that stated that no person who collected stamps was allowed to enjoy the special rights accorded by marriage? No? Why not? Because that would be completely ridiculous, thats why. It is equally ridiculous to deny those rights to gays and lesbians. One should never be denied ones rights as a result of making a life choice, even if some may find that choice abhorrent.
 
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Tipsy said:
Homosexual acts, like suicide are both wrong in my opinion. Suicide hurts the person commiting it physically, while homosexual acts in my opinion hurt that person spiritually. It doesn't matter if your in my religion or not, in my opinion/belief you are still responsible for his judgement when you die.
Your logic is skewed. To begin with, one can't logically compare suicide to homosexuality in an attempt to revise a prior statement comparing suicide to murder. Suicide is self-murder, your are still comparing homosexuality to murder! I find my comparison of homosexuality to stamp collecting to be a much better analogy (and I admit, I took some serious liberty with that one). Secondly spirituality has no place at the table when one is discussing the law (the real law, not the ones invented by religion), due to the fact that the framers of our constitution saw that when the church and the state are intermingled, governments like the Taliban are the inevitable result.
 

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...and nine pages later, it all boils down to the same essential argument that started the topic, namely, should we strip off the religious quality of the institution of marriage in order to give new rights to homosexual people ?

To quote armtin one page earlier :

the church should stay the **** out of government affairs, and let the state marry any two adults that want married.

the church isnt being forced to do anything at all, the church is just bitching at the state for being secular.
The problem is, the institution of marriage, I believe, was religion's business long before the state decided to give (insignificant) legal benefits to married people. If one of the two entity should stay out of marriage, it then should be the State. Furethermore, the few, minor benefits that the State gives do not provide enough ground for you to say that it goes against the secular caracteristic of the state.

But in my opinion, I say that in the end, let the majority decide. But what is for certain is that as long as Christian religion is concerned with marriage, and it is, homosexual cannot be married because of the belief system of this religion.
 

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Your logic is skewed. To begin with, one can't logically compare suicide to homosexuality in an attempt to revise a prior statement comparing suicide to murder. Suicide is self-murder, your are still comparing homosexuality to murder!
You hit the nail right on the head, but it just didn't click in your head. The entire point of switching the example from murder to self-murder (suicide) was because it is going to yourself. My entire argument is based off my religion which you have no doubt seen if you have read very many of my posts. Back to the point, it is my morals/values/opinions against yours. The problem with the example of murder is that it was hurting others, but in the example of suicide, it is not, your are hurting yourself. In my argument, which once again is based off my religion, you (everyone), is still going to be judged by my God when they die whether they like it or not. Suicide is committing a sin which causes physical and spiritual damage, homosexuality is a sin which is hurting you in the spiritual way. It may not be to the same extent, but you hit the nail straight on the head.

Secondly spirituality has no place at the table when one is discussing the law (the real law, not the ones invented by religion), due to the fact that the framers of our constitution saw that when the church and the state are intermingled, governments like the Taliban are the inevitable result.
I have already addressed how it is impossible to have a state which is not effected by religion and talking about our founding fathers. I have said this to others and I say it to you, read the thread. The last two pages have been repeats of the seven pages before it. Please, read the thread.

@BE's post. I agree with that completely.
 

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i dont see how christianity has a copyright on marraige... if the state wants to make their own marraige system, who is a church to tell it how it has to be run? this is no theocracy.

as long as you arent infringing on others rights, i dont see why you cant do what you want.

yes, your morals vrs my morals. but your morals hurt people, mine say let them be so long as they dont hurt anyone else. i feel my beliefs are more logical in this way.
 

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Black~Enthusiasm said:
The problem is, the instition of marriage, I believe, was religion's business long before the state decided to give (insignificant) legal benefits to married people. If one of the two entity shouls stay out of marriage, it then should be the State. Furethermore, the few, minors benefits that the State gives do not provide enough ground for you to say that it goes against the secular caracteristic of the state.
The legal benefits are more than enough to give a large edge to the State. Once again, regardless of origin, there is where we are now. The benefits (and title) should not be denied a people because of religious doctrine. Benefits aside, we are talking about a State issued license. The license shouldn't be biased due to religious morals or beliefs.

If there are benefits, and there always will be, than it is up to the secular State 100%. And by State, I do not mean a popular vote. This isn't a votable topic. We are not, and never have been, a true democracy, so that is a mute point. Hundreds of things, including laws, happen every day that the people don't even widely know about.



But in my opinion, I say that in the end, let the majority decide. But what is for certain is that as long as Christian religion is concerned with marriage, and it is, homosexual cannot be married because of the belief system of this religion.
As I was saying above, this isn't an issue that the majority should be able to decide. That would be like having a vote for Republican or Democratic ideas and whoever won would become the sole party. That isn't fair because of how this country works. That especially wouldn't be fair to the Liberatarians, for there is no chance they would have their values looked into. The same for homosexuals. There is no way, currently, that they will win a popular vote in this. But that doesnt mean they shouldnt be allowed to live out their own beliefs.

LIBERTY/CIVIL RIGHTS. Perhaps these ideas should be brought back into this government?



But anyway, I am at the point to ignore this thread. There is no possible way for me to convice you. Likewise, it is the same for you. A rather pointless debate. This isn't a creative argument. :(
 

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Lights said:
The legal benefits are more than enough to give a large edge to the State. Once again, regardless of origin, there is where we are now. The benefits (and title) should not be denied a people because of religious doctrine. Benefits aside, we are talking about a State issued license. The license shouldn't be biased due to religious morals or beliefs.
I think I'd be great if someone would explicitly state the differences betwen civil and religious unions, where the autority of the government ends and where does the autority of religion beginsm and all the civil benefits given by the State. The discussion would be much clearer then.

If there are benefits, and there always will be, than it is up to the secular State 100%. And by State, I do not mean a popular vote. This isn't a votable topic. We are not, and never have been, a true democracy, so that is a mute point. Hundreds of things, including laws, happen every day that the people don't even widely know about.
The State came and interfered with religion to give civil benefits, it is the state who's interfering. Not religion. So, on the inssue of marriage, if one of the two should stop infriging with this institution, it should be the State.


As I was saying above, this isn't an issue that the majority should be able to decide. That would be like having a vote for Republican or Democratic ideas and whoever won would become the sole party. That isn't fair because of how this country works. That especially wouldn't be fair to the Liberatarians, for there is no chance they would have their values looked into. The same for homosexuals. There is no way, currently, that they will win a popular vote in this. But that doesnt mean they shouldnt be allowed to live out their own beliefs.
I agree with you on this one, homosexual, hence their number and popularity, do not stand a chance to change things through democracy, for this is one of the 3 dangers that De Tocqueville warned us about concerning democracy : the Dictatorship of the Majority. So it should be up to your republican government.
But if you think that your elected leaders aren't taking the right decisions concerning the issue of same sex marriage, its up to the minority to push hard enough. Didn't the black succeded in doing this ?

Yet, everywhere in Canada, at the exception of one province, homosexual marriage are allowed, so there is still hope.

But anyway, I am at the point to ignore this thread. There is no possible way for me to convice you. Likewise, it is the same for you. A rather pointless debate. This isn't a creative argument. :(
Actualy, in my case, not only have I sharpened my own arguments on the issue of same-sex marriage, but I've learned tons of things on a wide variety of subjects are related to the main topic. I would hope its the same for you all, even if we didn't managed to convince the other party.

On a side note,, I am genuinely pleased at how this discussion was carried. Its been nine pages so far, and at the exception of some quasi-vehement exchange in the midle, it went very smootly. Cheers ! :)
 

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Black~Enthusiasm said:
The State came and interfered with religion to give civil benefits, it is the state who's interfering. Not religion. So, on the inssue of marriage, if one of the two should stop infriging with this institution, it should be the State.
You as well as I this will not happen. It isn't feasible nor should happen. We are not a theocracy and secular marriage is a concept that has long since been accepted. In fact, our current marriage system almost holds no similarities to its beginnings. For, according to this logic, divorces shouldn't be allowed. Henry VIII took care of that. Secular marriage is a complete and absolute different institution. Therefore, it does not require religon to validify it. And, in accordance, should not be influenced by ancient religious ideas.



On a side note,, I am genuinely pleased at how this discussion was carried. Its been nine pages so far, and at the exception of some quasi-vehement exchange in the midle, it went very smootly. Cheers ! :)
Heh, two 'w00ts' for us. >:O!
 

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you can be married by your church, but if you dont let the state know your married you dont get any legal benifits. if you want to be married in the eyes of the church alone, so be it. if you want to be married in the eyes of the state alone so be it. if you want to be married in the eyes of both, so be it.

but the only way you get legal benifits is if your married in the eyes of the state. and that union should be secular. the church can refuse to marry homosexuals all they want. a judge can marry them or something.
 
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@Tipsy: I don't really need to debate here. My side of the arguement is, and will completely win in Canada. Too bad, so sad. Soon there will be a law AGAINST a church refusing to wed same sex couples. Don't like it? Try crying, it accomplishes just as much as any court action would. I almost feel sorry for the church... Almost.

@Tipsy again: I talked to several ministers, and they are doubting the bible on this issue now. The church itself - questioning the bible. Like it? I sure do.

More anti-homophobic laws are soon to be put in place. I just hope that more haters land themselves in prison.

edit: Before homosexuality? Whoops. Pause. Rewind. Rewrite.

Aids was proven to have started affecting humanity in the 80's.

Homosexuality is as old as humanity itself. In fact, modern science is starting to suggest it's older. Ooops?

Note: I'm not into screwing monkeys. Thanks for suggesting it. :angry

Good to be back.
 

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@People for a "Anti-Sodomy Law" - The government has no place in the beds of the nation.
That is pure opinion, the government has the right to go wherever it wants as long as the people under the government give the government the right to by passing some sort of law.

@Tipsy: I don't really need to debate here. My side of the arguement is, and will completely win in Canada.
One of the few things in this time that I am proud to be an American for is its' stance, and Bush's stance, on topics such as homosexuality and abortion.

Too bad, so sad. Soon there will be a law AGAINST a church refusing to wed same sex couples. Don't like it? Try crying, it accomplishes just as much as any court action would. I almost feel sorry for the church... Almost.
Too bad, so sad, check the news. Paul Martin said that he will override the Supreme Court if it orders the church to marry same sex couples, better luck next time.
http://www.cbc.ca/stories/2003/12/18/martin031218
Thats the Canadian National Public Broadcaster site, I think you should trust it for Canadian News.

@Tipsy again: I talked to several ministers, and they are doubting the bible on this issue now. The church itself - questioning the bible. Like it? I sure do.
I really doubt that you did this, but if you did it doesn't matter what they say, it all goes up to the Vatican.

More anti-homophobic laws are soon to be put in place. I just hope that more haters land themselves in prison.
I really don't think you understand what I am saying. I could care less if someone is homosexual, the only thing in this perspective I don't like about them is the actual homosexual act itself.
 
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