Lights said:
The legal benefits are more than enough to give a large edge to the State. Once again, regardless of origin, there is where we are now. The benefits (and title) should not be denied a people because of religious doctrine. Benefits aside, we are talking about a State issued license. The license shouldn't be biased due to religious morals or beliefs.
I think I'd be great if someone would explicitly state the differences betwen civil and religious unions, where the autority of the government ends and where does the autority of religion beginsm and all the civil benefits given by the State. The discussion would be much clearer then.
If there are benefits, and there always will be, than it is up to the secular State 100%. And by State, I do not mean a popular vote. This isn't a votable topic. We are not, and never have been, a true democracy, so that is a mute point. Hundreds of things, including laws, happen every day that the people don't even widely know about.
The State came and interfered with religion to give civil benefits, it is the state who's interfering. Not religion. So, on the inssue of marriage, if one of the two should stop infriging with this institution, it should be the State.
As I was saying above, this isn't an issue that the majority should be able to decide. That would be like having a vote for Republican or Democratic ideas and whoever won would become the sole party. That isn't fair because of how this country works. That especially wouldn't be fair to the Liberatarians, for there is no chance they would have their values looked into. The same for homosexuals. There is no way, currently, that they will win a popular vote in this. But that doesnt mean they shouldnt be allowed to live out their own beliefs.
I agree with you on this one, homosexual, hence their number and popularity, do not stand a chance to change things through democracy, for this is one of the 3 dangers that De Tocqueville warned us about concerning democracy : the Dictatorship of the Majority. So it should be up to your republican government.
But if you think that your elected leaders aren't taking the right decisions concerning the issue of same sex marriage, its up to the minority to push hard enough. Didn't the black succeded in doing this ?
Yet, everywhere in Canada, at the exception of one province, homosexual marriage are allowed, so there is still hope.
But anyway, I am at the point to ignore this thread. There is no possible way for me to convice you. Likewise, it is the same for you. A rather pointless debate. This isn't a creative argument.
Actualy, in my case, not only have I sharpened my own arguments on the issue of same-sex marriage, but I've learned tons of things on a wide variety of subjects are related to the main topic. I would hope its the same for you all, even if we didn't managed to convince the other party.
On a side note,, I am genuinely pleased at how this discussion was carried. Its been nine pages so far, and at the exception of some quasi-vehement exchange in the midle, it went very smootly. Cheers !