actualli nuts, when gurls say dat, dun b too harsh on urself....but most ob da time, da answer will b no if u keep on asking about it...
and ross, i think going out is a great idea, but for a dinna, i suggest u get to kno her better, such as what kind of food, what kind of scene/atmosphere she likez better....den u can narrow the food places down...for example, if she likes to eat burgers, by all means, take her to a fast food place, cuz den both of u will b happi, instead of da pressure amongst both of u