jd-inflames said:
Now honestly, do you remember when your mother was in that stage of pregnancy? No. Wanna know why? Because you aren't developed. At all.
Do you remember your first two months of life? No? Should that fact have granted your mother the right to jam a knife into your skull during that period in your life?
jd-inflames said:
What a women does with her body is her own choice.
Yes, it is her choice to do whatever she wants with her body. She
chose to have sex, fully understanding the potential consequences of this action regardless of the contraceptive(s) used. As is applied to the rest of society, your rights are limited to the point where they do not infringe on any other person(s) rights.
jd-inflames said:
If she feels that she isn't fit to be a mother or feels that she isn't healthy enough to have a successful delivery, or just simply doesn't want to go through the pains, she should be allowed to abort it.
No, in that case she shouldn't have had sex.
jd-inflames said:
And no matter how much you want to believe it, condoms, spermacides, birth control, ANY kind of contriceptive is not 100% effective.
Here's a contraceptive that's 100% effective: not having sex.
jd-inflames said:
No, it doesn't simply "happen." The woman willingly chose to have sex and thus accepted any consequences that may occur as a result of her actions (not applicable in the instance of rape, in which case I support abortion)
jd-inflames said:
but just remember, inconvenient things happen.
Those "inconvenient things" only happen as a result of actions the persons involved chose to perform. (again, not applicable in the instance of rape)
jd-inflames said:
In my opinion, adoption is 10x worse than abortion. If I had grown up knowing I was adopted, I would have rather not existed at all than knowing that the people who concieved me didn't want me and gave me away like yesterdays trash. Yes, I would rather be destroyed the proper way than thrown away.
Just like you said, that's
your opinion. Unless you can tell me that, without a doubt, 100% of adopted persons would prefer death over what they were given, then you have absolutely no right to make that decision for them.
Nermal said:
But then, you have to consider that some people do not want children at all, or don't even have the means to do so.
I guess she shouldn't have had sex...
Nermal said:
Yes.. adoption exists.. but still a girl would have to go through 9 months of unwanted pregancy, drop school (or work) for a month and then give birth to a baby and give it away?
I guess she shouldn't have had sex...
Nermal said:
B-E was telling me 'Oh it's because it gets in the way of your career then?' well.. that's kind of true. If you can't afford to take that month off, money wise or whatever the reason.. should you still go through all that? I'm not sure..
I guess she shouldn't have had sex...
Nermal said:
I'm not saying it's right to do so, but I do think there are times where the adoption solution isn't always the bet either. 9 months we talking about! It's a whole 9 months in her life.. if she can afford to do so! Then please do! But if she can't.. then maybe abortion is a good answer.
I guess she shouldn't have had sex...
Nermal said:
If a girl gets raped and gets pregnant? Should she keep it? for 9 months reminding her she was raped? It's a tricky subject with many different possibilities in it.
If the woman was raped or will not survive child birth, then I'll support abortion in those cases.
Nermal said:
And is there a right time to do so? Before it's a 'living organism'?
I'd say no later than 10 weeks into the pregnancy.