Yea... Void won't work for this one.

[TweaK]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Yea... Void won't work for this one.

Originally posted by AxL
Then just ask here.

Also this board is filled with people who have never been in a serious relationship so expecting everyone to have a serious reply is ludicrous.

Refer to the **** paragraph.

 

[AxL]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Yea... Void won't work for this one.

Originally posted by TweaK
Refer to the **** paragraph.

No need to swear. Also you want to be serious yet you have so many swears in your post.

Anyway, love is a strong word and I don't think it should be used a lot. Love is something both persons give into and would do anything for that other person. I think you should just talk to her, and see how she feels. If worse comes to worse she doesn't like you, and you just find another girl.

 

[TweaK]

I don't think you understand how I really feel right now...

 

[AxL]

Originally posted by TweaK
I don't think you understand how I really feel right now...

Well clue me in. If you genuinely feel you love this girl, not doing anything is not going to help the situation. Go to her, lay your cards on the table and if she shoves them in your face, find another girl.

 

[TweaK]

Originally posted by AxL
if she shoves them in your face, find another girl.

1. She's not going to shove them in my face, but she will make things awefully akward between eachother...
2. I'm not even going to bother thinking about that bullshit right now.

Right now, I feel I WOULD give anything to stay here with her...

 

[AxL]

Originally posted by TweaK
1. She's not going to shove them in my face, but she will make things awefully akward between eachother...
2. I'm not even going to bother thinking about that bullshit right now.

Right now, I feel I WOULD give anything to stay here with her...

If you don't mind me asking how old are you?

 

[CelestialBadger]

It looks like you only really posted this because you needed to figure it out for yourself. I hope it helped. Good luck.

 

[TweaK]

I sir am 16, in love, and sounding like a complete idiot. May I shove this in anybody who cares face:

and then u would be mentally closing urself off from all other oprutunitites of realasionships in nelson

 

[t.A.T.u97]

Well, if she loves you that much and you love her that much you will work it out, and find someway to be with eachother even if you arent in the same place. Who says once you move away you wont see her again?

And for once I agree with Axl :

Also this board is filled with people who have never been in a serious relationship so expecting everyone to have a serious reply is ludicrous.

 

[TweaK]

Nobody did, not even I.

 

[t.A.T.u97]

Nothings stopping you to take the greyhound down to see her =)

 

[Korittke]

If you want serious advice, you should either continue talking to Galatia without this thread or post at another forum such as a forum entirely dedicated to the topic of love.

 

[TweaK]

This really wasn't so much for advice, but just getting it all out...

 

[Korittke]

OK, I usually do that on a sheet of paper but whatever floats your boat. Depends on what you expect from doing it. If you've already got one or more persons to talk to I think everything should be at it's best for a situation such as this one. Would you consider moving in with her at some later point such as one year or a bit more, or at least try and get her to a location of lower distance?

 

[Arkillo]

Alright Tweak, look. It goes like this, you're moving, and aside from running away, there isn't really anything you can do about it, right? If that's the case, then just make this last month the best you can.

I've had my girlfriend move away from me (around 11 hour drive up there) and we both decided it would be best if we broke up when she moves, and that we just need to spend the last month together as much as we can...

Was it hard? Hell yea, I had been going out with her for over a year...Did I get over it? Yeah, eventually. Wasnt' easy though.

I'm not saying it's going to be easy, in fact, I know it's going to bea hard, specially the day after, it's hell. But trust me, you'll get through it.

 

[Zmoney]

I'd say you go out with her and make the best of the situation?

I mean If your close now but you end it, amagine what will be going through your head in terms of regret the next few months.

I say hit a HOmerun tweak.

PS: You deserve this.

 

[Amantis]

Tell her how you feel. If you don't give things a shot, you'll probably regret it later.

It won't be easy, but there are just some things that are worth going for.

- Amantis

 

[Beer $lut]

Well if you think about it maybe you can use the moving away part as an advantage. You can build up enough strength to find out if she feels the same way, and if she doesn't you can remember that you're moving and you probably won't think about her as much, but thats also a bad part because if she does like you then you still have to move. But how far apart? Will you guys still be able to see each other at all?

You just gotta push yourself man. Good luck.

Oh yeah i didn't call you an emo boy only because you're like my favorite member.

 

[COTA-GoD]

wow tweak, thats alot of swearing in one paragraph that accually made sence! anyways,....i would say dont go for it.... just keep things going as they are now, and then you will have to move.... i know you will regret it after you leave, but it will hurt less. Believe me...ive been there...

 

[DB]

It's better to have loved and lost...