I don't think I've ever actually felt hate, and I don't ever want to.
Shit, I don't even dislike that many people. I'm a bit of an optimist when it comes down to believing that most people aren't as bad as they seem if you take a closer look at them. I can't stay mad at people when I think about the things in their lives that could be causing them to do the things that are ticking me off.
I mean, almost everybody I've ever had a real conflict with I eventually became friends with...usually pretty decent friends. All it ever really takes is a bit of "level adjustment." Most people are on different "wavelengths" or just ways of thinking, and if you adapt a little bit to meet people where they're at, you can get along with almost anybody. The question is, do you have the give-a-shit to even care about getting along? Most of the time I don't, so I don't bother to make friends.