Why does life and love have to be so complicating and depressing?

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VizjereiMage said:
$lut for once please don't act like an idiot.
Boo whoo. You call me an idiot then come here and look for sympathy. Too bad, deal with it.
 

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vizjerei . . . one of my best friends(guess how that story went^^^^) once said something along the lines of: "You have a boyfriend to go out and have a good time, to have fun; but your best friends are there for you forever, through bad and good times. That is where the real "love" lies."

When i first heard that, I thought it was kinda childish, but I realized that in these stages of our lives, having a bf/gf isnt about life-time comittment or getting married. A friend's love is more powerful and special than the physical desires of teenage relationships.

Its really hard to explain, maybe it just needs to be realized, not explained.

regardless, my sympathies and whatever necessary support. I have felt before what you are feeling now, and I can honestly tell you the situation you are in is better than it seems. You two obviously have a deep deep friendship, and it is better to protect that than lose it in the high of raging hormones and teenage passions.
 

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Put it this way - this is life.

There is no point in trying to get back together unless both of you have a reason to.

And it doesn't look that way.

I am sorry.
 

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I'm not going to say 'I know what its like' or 'I know how you feel' because I don't. I've had a few crushes in the past, but nothing came of it. I have never loved anyone. Maybe its my distrust of everyone and everything that prevents me from loving, I don't know. All I know is that someday I'll find someone. I also know that someday you will as well. Everyone has to find somebody right?
 

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*yawn*

Stop comming here with your personal chick problems. Seriously. You're cool and all, but it seems like all you do now a days is mope around about some girl, or obsess over some girl. Heres a little tip for you (and trust me, I've had my share of HS relationships) -- They won't amount to shit. In reality, the main goal, is get laid. Thats all there is to it. Go ahead and say "OMG SOULESS UR HARTLESS!" and I'll tell you to get over it.

Theres a reason to why I'm like this, so don't think I'm like this to be an ass.

How long were you two going out? Couldn't have been that long, shit. just /reroll a GF and you'll be fine in a few days.

GGed by a chick, god I love it :yum


Edit: Change your title to [Emo Nazi] -- You deserve it over me.
 

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aww poor viz maby cupple years she be back or months
any way need a wug from ur azn version? :p
 

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Grieving Mendacity said:
*yawn*

Stop comming here with your personal chick problems. Seriously. You're cool and all, but it seems like all you do now a days is mope around about some girl, or obsess over some girl. Heres a little tip for you (and trust me, I've had my share of HS relationships) -- They won't amount to shit. In reality, the main goal, is get laid. Thats all there is to it. Go ahead and say "OMG SOULESS UR HARTLESS!" and I'll tell you to get over it.

Theres a reason to why I'm like this, so don't think I'm like this to be an ass.

How long were you two going out? Couldn't have been that long, shit. just /reroll a GF and you'll be fine in a few days.

GGed by a chick, god I love it :yum


Edit: Change your title to [Emo Nazi] -- You deserve it over me.
For christs sake shut the hell up. I've talked about a grand total of 2 girls on my times here at BF and only have made 2 threads "moping" about it. You want to know why I chose to post it on BF instead of just talking with friends?

Of all of the people I've told about what has happened..like 2 people IRL have made me feel better. The rest were people from BF.

We were going out for about a month and 2 weeks.

Oh, and I know HS relationships mostly don't work out, but some do. So yes, I have hopes for any of my relationships. Also, I don't give a **** if I have sex with my girlfriend or not. It's not the #1 thing on my mind when in a relationship.

I love the people of the world. Such pieces of shit assholes that have no regard for others.
 

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Viz, seriously, give me a break. I went out with a girl for over a year. She was cheating on me for the better portion of it. I went out with another girl for over a year, which she also, ended up cheating on me. Oh, then there was another girl, who I was dating for a bit over half a year, which ended up breaking up with me because she was in love with some guy that lives in another state. You have no idea what it's like to be completely crushed. You really don't, and for your sake, I hope you never know what it's like.

I have hope for my relationships. Hell, I'm currently dating some new chick, and we've been going out for like 3 weeks or something. Do I plan on it lasting a long time? Of course. Is it going to? Chances are it will, but is it ever going to amount out to shit, other than just another chick I had sex with? Prolly not.

You think I have no regard for others? You're sadly mistaken. However much of an ass I sounded like, and however much of an ass I'm still sounding like, I still care. Life sucks, and then you die. Once people realize that, things are much better.
 

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You're not him, how the **** would you understand how he deals with it?

Why the hell doesn't anyone bitch at others who've made threads IE Tweak.
 

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I don't know Idefy, but maybe because TweaK is friends with all the assholes here basically. A prime example of this is Beer $lut here, who doesn't care about other peoples problems. Thats fine, but if you don't care then do us all a favor and just don't post in that thread please. If you can't be caring and supportive of you're fellow moderators and BF Friends then don't post at all.



So what? I'm Emotional too. Arn't you? Ohh yea, you don't date girls. ;) Beer $lut just grow up or don't post in here please. We don't need your sensless self-centered bullshit.
 

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Oh. He's tough. Watch out guys..
 

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Beer $lut said:
lol souless is emo too.
I never came here to cry about it ;)
 

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Wow, another bullshit i wanna be friends breakup huh, that sucks dude.

i swear my girl is like swimfan, but if i were to marry her someday she ruined the suspense for me, she already said shed marry me lol, but gl with a new girl man theres plenty more :)
 

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VizjereiMage said:
Why does life and love have to be so complicating and depressing?
cuz if it wasnt ... it would be to easy ... i have asked myself that smae question
 

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