Well... I'm a dad now :)

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Cobalt Wolf said:
No baby is an accident. Even if we didn't have it planned, God did.
If it wasn't planned by him then there would be no baby.

Don't get me started. lol

Agreed. Now he has a huge responsibility on his hands. I believe him that he is a father now, mainly because he made this thread seeking help and support from BF. I know he would be flamed if he lied. I still would quit smoking pot, because what if your son finds out you do it? He's going to be looking up to you, and you will need to set an example for him, so maybe he will grow up better then you did. Good luck. :)
 

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Rygon said:
That poor child.
:susp

TheNamelessPunk said:
im not convinced yet. you cant just say you had a kid and hope everyone believes you.
well why would i lie about something like this...

¥ôÜ §úçK said:
either spend less time on bf orrrr teach your kid how to read and write soon and block off the asylum ;) lol

seriously though i think you can be a good parent whenever you decide to be, just make sure your ready
he is 3 days old i'm not to worried about reading and writing yet :p

drax said:
Good luck. Hope he turns out just like you...well maybe not just like you... :)
lol, there is some things i did that i dont want him to do but besides those couple of things (droping out of hie school smoking and doing pot) i want him to be like me. he kinda looks like i did when i was a baby my mom said, but if you ask me all babys pretty much look the same.

Zaku said:
Yea, at the age of 19 is NOT the right time to have kids. Unless you are getting paid $50 an hour and work 40 hours a week. Have fun going into debit. This most likely will ruin you financially for the rest of your life. And also...

*smells*

Smells like bullshit.
well me and my gf are going to be working seperate shifts so i get to take care of him wile shes at work and she can take care of him wile i'm at work, and with both of us bringing in a pay chec kand not needing to pay a baby sitter we will be fine.

Grieving Mendacity said:
Isn't this kid like 18? Way to ruin your life.
i dont think i ruined my life by having the kid. sure i made it a little harder but not ruined.

R[s]T said:
SHIT! YOu only 19 and smoking pot and u have a kid?!! holy ****. THink of your baby man dammit! how did u get the baby? y didnt u use protection? 19 only? holy smokes.


Omfg. DOnt ****ed up the kid.

P.s. CONGRATULATIONS!
gee thanks for the suport :susp
 

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Maybe you shouldn't have mentioned the pot to everyone. Then everyone would be like:
"Congrats!"
"Good job!"
"I need a boyfriend!"
"Have fun!"

And etc. etc.

I'll just say congrajulations. You have been acting so calm, while many are against you. I am impressed. Good luck with Jason, and teach him the good ethics. I see so many drugees at my school- all punks who are barely passing and only hang out with other fools. Please, don't let your kid be like one of those types. He is the next future generation of this country...
 

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usually its college...then marriage..then maybe a kid

you did..highschool...kid... and then...?
 

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grandkids.

pyro, im proud of the fact that you are sticking through this all, that youre not some abandoning jackass. i wish i knew you well enough to say you'll be a good father, but i dont. but i do hope so, and if you say so ill believe you.
 

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Why DO people smoke pot lol, it raises a buncha crap like, you idiot, wow nice example for kids. I can live my life fine without pot, why smoke it.
Beer is another story though, but its legal, well, not for me, im 15. I still drink it. I guess i shouldnt talk huh. but i dont NEED it, its fun to drink, but i know when i should and shouldnt, people develop a need for pot, thats bad.

O well, i dont want kids for awhile, good ole trojan man. I'd rather kick back at 19, friends, beer, tv, gf.
 

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good luck with the baby,btw i live in delaware too.south east part
 

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After reading through this thread I can honestly say I've lost respect for a good portion of you.
 

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agreed, i think he needs support not people telling him to stop smoking.... do you really think its going to make a difference to him what a bunch of internet people say about him smoking pot?
 

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VizjereiMage said:
After reading through this thread I can honestly say I've lost respect for a good portion of you.
Meh, I really did not have respect in the first place. But I still think that all this sounds like bullshit. Until I see some proof, it dont believe this story.
 

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phreakerhaxxor said:
Why DO people smoke pot lol, it raises a buncha crap like, you idiot, wow nice example for kids. I can live my life fine without pot, why smoke it.
Beer is another story though, but its legal, well, not for me, im 15. I still drink it. I guess i shouldnt talk huh. but i dont NEED it, its fun to drink, but i know when i should and shouldnt, people develop a need for pot, thats bad.

O well, i dont want kids for awhile, good ole trojan man. I'd rather kick back at 19, friends, beer, tv, gf.
You drink at this age? You might not need it now, but when you get older you will be addicted and spend tons of money on that stuff. And how is it fun to drink? Just to look cool? Peer Pressure? I admit, there is a temptation, but at 15?
 

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If any of you have ever smoked (anything) or drank wine/beer then you all know that
it is addicting once you really get into it. Unless you have smoked or drank then you
have no room to put Pyro down because you obviously don't know what it is like. And
if you have smoked/drank then you still have no room because you have done it too.

The most that we can do is to tell him that it is bad and that he needs to quit.
That is better than saying nothing at all. But it's really unnecessary to say that
you have lost respect for him and to say other things to put him down because
it's not helping. And don't even bother giving that 'tough love' line
- if you care, you act like it.

He will quit smoking and he will be a good dad. He's come this far - there was no
abortion and it's obvious from the way that he talks that he wants the baby around.
He even said that he and his girlfriend are getting seperate shifts so that one can
take care of the baby when the other one is working. He will quit smoking and be
a good dad because he knows he has to.
 

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