Relationships, what has hurt?

[RuneyPoo]

Many of us go through life and many relationships, whether its with Males or Females(or whether your straight, gay, or Bi-Sexual.) There are heartbreaks, heartaches, lies, and... pain throughout all those. Some of you may flip out and hurt yourselves when you get upset, some of you may hit your lover, some may just laugh at it, and some will bawl their heads off.

Now, is there a reason for this thread? Yes... What has made you upset in your relationships, the one biggest thing that has affected you both in a big way. List as many as you want. Also, tell us what you did afterwords, Cry, hit, flipout... anything.


The one thing that hurt me the most is, me hearing that my Fiance was raped. She was up at Niagra University Dorms with her Aunt Jackie(Three years apart from each other, wierd, eh?) Well, Jackie and her friends left the dorm room with her and someone else that she didn't know at all. Everyone was smashed off their ass. The dude forced her down into the couch and just raped her... This happened three times that night, no one came back till around five in the morning, kid was gone as well. I cried for hours after I heard this from her, and everytime I think about it, I cry more...

People are such dicks sometimes, have to go to that kind of shit just to get layed. Why don't people think about other peoples feelings before they do shit like that? Think about how they affect other peoples lives before they do it? Why don't perverted arseholes like them just ****ing die, because really, I am sick of them all...

-Rune

 

[JeFfDiddy78]

yeah dude theres alot of sick people hopefully he burns in hell when he dies.....well my story is i was goin out w/this girl and long story short out of nowhere she dumps me right after lunch at school i took it pretty bad i was depressed for like 3 months and i started cutting my arm and stupid shit like that but i stoped and ive eventually got over it.

 

[RuneyPoo]

Originally posted by JeFfDiddy78
yeah dude theres alot of sick people hopefully he burns in hell when he dies.....well my story is i was goin out w/this girl and long story short out of nowhere she dumps me right after lunch at school i took it pretty bad i was depressed for like 3 months and i started cutting my arm and stupid shit like that but i stoped and ive eventually got over it.

If she found out you were cutting your arm she most likely would have done it herself as well, if she knew it was because of her.

I started cutting my arm when I found out T was raped, I did it about twice. She flipped out on me and said if I did it again she would dump me, but right after she broke into tears(well right after I did) and all I did was apologize... Never have since.

 

[Misterwhippy]

Well, just a few weeks ago my girlfriend cheated on me, probably theworst thing a girl can do. I talked to galtia about this a bit and she gave me some really good advice. I ended up breaking up with her, but a few days later I decided I liked her so much and we went out again, things are fine now, but the guy is going to get a huge assbeating....

 

[RuneyPoo]

Originally posted by Misterwhippy
Well, just a few weeks ago my girlfriend cheated on me, probably theworst thing a girl can do. I talked to galtia about this a bit and she gave me some really good advice. I ended up breaking up with her, but a few days later I decided I liked her so much and we went out again, things are fine now, but the guy is going to get a huge assbeating....

People who have cheated on their boyfriend or girlfriend usually does it again, as if they could do it once, they can do it again. So Whippy, watch out for yourself...

 

[Misterwhippy]

Originally posted by Netxenur
People who have cheated on their boyfriend or girlfriend usually does it again, as if they could do it once, they can do it again. So Whippy, watch out for yourself...

She's whipped as hell now, she doesnt do anything with out my permission now.

 

[dust601]

i've been in about 5 relationships that girl has ended cuz she says i have self destructive tendencys
granted not self destructive as in hurting myself or others, just messin up any chance at a decent future from lack of motivation or caring

 

[Static]

you know nothing says loving like a good hand and porn.

The vacation(vacate) of your sperm ducts can be one of the greatest ways to not get into a relationship. The only reason you should get into a relationship is if you really like and want to spend time with a girl or a guy.

if your doing it for the sex make sure she is a whore and will give it up cause you don't want to hang around someone you don't like for something you don't want right after you masterbate. Sex is all good but if you really want it go get a prostitute .

or get your girl drunk and feed her alot of oysters.

 

[AnImA]

iv never actuallt self harmed but iv come close!
recently iv become convinced that my GF of nearly 3years is cheating on me.she is cheating on me with someone twice her age (shes 19) with a family!its depressing.she wouldnt sleep with me and saw the text messages on her phone and she was always tired.all the signs pointed towards her cheating.
i was sick in the mornings i got the shits and all that kind of stuff.i just wanted to die.all i did was punch my leg because it made me feel better but never did anything like cut myself i didnt have the guts.

wow it felt good telling someone.

any advice?

 

[DB]

Here's a fact for you guys. 72% of all males said they would rape a girl if they could get away with it.

 

[Static]

i prolly would... i would rape brittney spears.... I mean she is asking for it the way she dresses and the way her videos make her look... oh man would i rape the sh*t outta her.

 

[dust601]

dark its a power thing, what person wouldn't wunna be able to have full control over somthing and get away with it?
ask girls if they'd do something pleasurable but morally wrong if they could get away with it and see what response is

 

[DB]

I read that in the stat book. I think that the women's response was somewhere in the 50's. But I'm not completely sure on that.

 

[Jaden]

well personally i wouldn't do something pleaurable, but morally wrong.. even if i knew i could get away with it. Abusing someone is never pleasurable anyway. How could you find it pleasurable to make someone feel so much physical pain and to feel so ashamed and guilty that they wished they were dead! how is it Pleasurable to have full control when your control is destroying someone else's life. You have no idea so why don't u just shut the hell up. or take it to the asylum.

Static, Britney spears is responsible for the way she dresses but you look at it. No one ever 'asks' to be raped or to be abused. That is just what sick people use to justify their disgusting actions.

 

[Tempest Storm]

The complete destruction of a human being is art. Tearing them up mentally, emotionally, physically, it's art. And the ppl capable of this sort of thing don't feel guilt.

For most men, rape is about power. But I'm not a power freak, and I'm rather good looking. If I want sex, it ain't that ****ing hard to find it. I wouldn't rape a girl because of the guilt, but bcause I don't need to.

Though I wouldn't mind a chick raping me...

 

[Kamikaze]

Originally posted by Dark Blade
I read that in the stat book. I think that the women's response was somewhere in the 50's. But I'm not completely sure on that.

you actually think it's possible for a woman to rape a man?
you can't rape the willing, sex is all men ever think about

 

[Above_70Percent]

Lol, True Dat Kamikazee, True Dat man. But after something in your life like a Kid comes along, sex is one of the last things on your mind. Take it from me.

Here goes my story.

It was 5 years ago but i remember it as like it was yesterday.

I was 13 and it was the beginning of the school year, it was 7th period this girl walks in and i look at her and i was like "OMFG SHE IS SO ****ING SLAMMING." The problem was she wasn't the most popular girl in school, and to some people she wasnt the hottest. But to me she was the most elegnat girl in the world. I was in the "In" crowd. My friends started dissing me about this and that about her. Me being a stupid 13 year old cared what they said. But eventually this happened then that happened we go out. We were together for like 4 weeks and we have been on like 2 dates, and im just this horny 13 year old that wants to do something. So my friends keep making fun of me and stuff so I just crack and thought to myself "Hrmm i should break up with her but I don't wanna hurt her" So me the lil ****, decided to make up a story of how i Cheated on her. Well, long story short, i tell her the story she thinks about, we talk on the phone for like 3 hours, i meet her the next day at school and she breaks up with me,

At first, I was like "ok w/e who cares" but throughout the whole day I couldn't think about anything but what i just did and boy o boy do i regret it. I went home and I actually cried, i thought i was a freaking pussy because i was crying over a girl. Throughout school i was known as the "pimP' going out with a girl every other week but i ccouldnt go out with anyone after her, for 5 years the only thing I could ever think about is her, even when I'm with another girl. Since then we have never talked again and I still regret it. We go to the same college right now, here and there I see her. I think she might be the one for me but after i've done i dunno what's gonna happen between us.
But thats my story.

 

[Tempest Storm]

Why don't you just go up and ask her on a date? I mean, if she's as cool as you say she is, I doupt she'll use what you did 5 years ago against you.

 

[theyuw]

I'm kind of confused why some of you peeps cut yourselves? I think its sad and demonstrates that many of you are "spoiled" as well. There you are killing yourselves over a break up etc... but not once did you ever stop to think how good you actually have it. Let's see, what would all of us choose? Starving to death in some third world country because we are so poor that we cannot afford or let alone get our hands on food or a break up with a loved one followed by a few days or at most a weak of dipression and heart ache. Please don't be such pussies...

 

[Mark4]

Why don't you tell her your feelings frank to the heart by a letter or something?


Well, as for me I don't really have a lot to jog down since what hurt me most was my failure "at" a relationship. -_-;

I fell in love with this girl when I was 14, first sight, something I have never been able to believe even existed. I thought of her during my whole winter vacation(it's like 3months in my country), I recall about 18 hours a day. She was basically an angel to me, -not a God since I was a strict Catholic at that time- I would dare dream of my self kissing her in the morning after I've had a dream of her and spend my next 17 hours of my lamentable days in guilt and in confusion of my desires toward her. That was like my vacation.. lol
Basically when school started I always lingered around her hidden in something or one's shadows just to say hello to her but really couldn't since she was radiant.. my heart just stopped beating everytime and it really makes me wonder to this day how I've survived the many secret encounters with her.
But eventually like it should, word got around that I was totally something inhuman around her(people obviously started to realize that I always stood like I was blinded by something whenever she passed) and those rumors developed into something full of implications that she also had something about me.

So one day I planned to at least actually squeak "hi" to her(in Korean of course), but the moment I saw her plainly "floating" towards my direction at the hall, I froze with that crap expression that you see in face of a victim in the X-files, and felt like I messed up yet again, but I as I piveted to stare at the back of her I felt this stupid, pathetic courage without reason urging me to go ahead and talk to her about "something". This sensation was pushing me ecoing that if I were to truly love her this way than would she not have at least a small heart for me.. which was blind hope actually -_-; I dashed, tapped her on her holy shoulders which were to question me since it bore no wings of an angel like it was supposed to and I think I bluttered something like "I like you.. do you feel the same way?" which was.... a pure folly


she gasped. and walked away.


I guess that was my genuinly sad first love, an unrequitted one to my greatest despair. I've never felt anything that hurt that much..never even got a chance to say hi to her as a someone. Ahh.... it just freakin hurts.... 3 years have passed but I have never seen any girl close to her beauty.
Pathetic, my friends call it, they say that that girl was never beautiful nonetheless pretty in really generous standards.

Oh, well.. maybe when I succeed in entering a nice university I'll try just one more time.



Geez.. I can't reflect this memory in English..... sorry guys but I hope you get the picture