Relationship Advice

[IDefy]

If your a senior I wouldn't bother. Highschool relationships are childs play. There's college, people grow up and out of things. But if you actually do care, ask her, there's no reward if there's no risk,

 

[Emperor Pan I]

well my gut reaction is to point at you, laugh and call you a panzy.

but that would make me look like a prick.

If you're all worried and shit, get facebook, then force her to get it and you can always know where she is, and if you ever want to come out and tell her anything you can arrange a meeting on the internet.

God bless the internet.

 

[TrongaMonga]

In any case, if you're almost done with High School, means you'll go to college, and probably never see her again. If I'm wrong, the option is to do what pretty much they all did.

However, if I am right, you shouldn't risk in starting a serious relationship with a girl that you will stop seeing in 3 months. Still, many things can happen, so why not take the chance anyway?

 

[torrid mind]

chicks like confidence...... at least I know I do. if you can just tell her she will at least respect your honesty.
don't be overwhelming, don't bring up the word love, don't say things like "going steady" or "be my girlfreind" just say, you know, I like you and I would like to spend more time with you or something along thouse lines.
make sure you take it slow...

 

[Zmoney]

One thing I found out, as pathetic as it sounds, that most girls that ever showed interest in me (ie: hanging out, etc.) were all girls that liked me and wanted to date me. So, maybe it's similar for you I don't know. Either way you'll never know what could have been if you don't talk to her.

Oh, and one last thing. Love her? Dude..you don't. If you think you're in love with someone that you're not even dating..chances are you're not. I don't see how anyone can love another person without building up that of which comes along with relationships. Just an FYI.

Good Point with the love thing.

Those are lustful feelings.

 

[Andrew]

It could be love. We have no idea how long he has known her.

 

[Speaker]

I know, you're probably laughing at me for coming to an internet forum forum for relationship advice. Oh well, you'll just have to get over it and make some helpful input if you want.

Anyways, my problem is as follows: I'm not entirely sure if it's love or just a really strong attraction, but I've grown feelings for this girl... I've actually had them for a while, but I suddenly became aware of the "depth" of them I had for her. It all started when I took her to prom on Saturday.

We went just as friends, or at least I did. Although, she was the one who wanted me to ask her, so I don't know... Anyways, we had a good time and everything. Then her and two others we went to prom to just hangout and watch some TV at my house before going back out again. Nothing really happened, there, but when we were going to go back out to party her parents called her and made me take her home along with her friend who was going to stay at her house...

I had planned on telling her how I felt during that night, but with her friend in the car and me taking them both to her house would've been kind of awkward... Now I'm not entirely sure of how I should follow this up. I'm not even sure if she'd like me back. That's probably the main reason I'm actually making the thread, because I'm scared of the consequences of her not reciprocating the feelings back. 'Cause then it'd be really awkward.... And high school's almost done for good... So, if you have any advice, I'd really like to hear it.

Anyways, hopefully I'll receive some advice along with the insulting comments I'm sure to get...

sounds like she used u for prom and it was a planned calling from her mother. sorry.