If the two of you wanna make it personal, vBulletin made a thing called 'Personal Messaging'. Use it.
Or just take it to the Asylum.
Still, I hate Ferals for the same reason Warg said, being NE. Ferals are really dangerous towards NE, you rarely see them nicely, and once they become Dire Wolves, it's chaos time! Like having 2 lv3 BMs with Crit. Strike all over again.