Holy potatoes!
STATIC: First of all, what you said is not love, if love were nothing more than THAT, we all wouldn't feel what we feel now. 'Caring', 'passion', etc. are nice words that many people use for love, but you interperate them without even knowing what it is to feel it.
AZN_FLEA: You don't need to use violence to defend your 'gal', you should know this.
KORITTKE: Everyone loves in a different way, and has different impulses. If you said "Someone needs a brain" because you think that the phrase ''I dont like violence but I tend to use violence a lot'' is redundant or that is contradicts itself, you are wrong. It is possible to use violence even when you don't like it. Maybe AZN_FLEA feels that he/she has to. You could say "That's just stupid", but then again, do you really know that the sort of love you know or see is the only kind that exists?
---I really have to know the person more in order to love them. It's not just the personality, it's EVERYTHING. I would find their beauty, because they're my, I don't know, they're undescribably unique. Other people may find them moderate, or maybe, just plainly, not comment on it. But if I find them attractive, and they ask me if I think they're such, well, most people would find this to be a difficult question (i.e.: you say 'yeah', and they say 'oh, so you just like me on the outside?!')... I'd say yes... then I'd say that that's not one of the reasons I love this person.
---So, the kind of love I find that is in my utmost interior, is the kind that has more than one thread to it. The sex, the hugging, the kissing, the nose-rubbing... those are nice. But all of those would mean nothing, without actually talking to them, without sitting down and having a conversation about your relationship, or about something really, really deep or powerful to you guys, like say ... "Hey, Jody, is there something more powerful than love?"
---And even if you think you found the right one, don't speed up, take things slow, if you don't want anyone coming between you and f***ing things up.
***THAT ALL YOU GOT, MAGGIT! MORE! ARRIBA! ARRRRIBA!!***