Why do ex's do this,,,,

Glowy

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Well this is the 3rd ex g/f I'm sorry msg I've gotten this past month and...I just can't fanthom why they wait for long periods of times then out of no where bam write a fucking novel on how sorry and shit. Like time makes there mistakes more noticable.....does a guilty conscinence really get to them over time where they think they gotta dig up old memories to clear there conscious? YEa I cna;'t spell I'm drunk...but since you guys seems to care way to fucking much about fucking everything here I figured I might get some idea of why they fucking do this to me...


Usually I'd just ignore them but if anyone knew me past expirence with my ex-fiance then they'd know that this was a hard time in my life for this stupid bitch. Might as well post the msg.

well im ommited some private shit but bottem line is this



Look before you decide just to delete this message, let me tell you that i am sorry for what happened to us. I have felt so guilty all this time and i needed you to know that. I understand if you don't reply but i wanted you to know that I really did love and care about you but we were going differant places.

Just please don't hate me forever. I really am sorry and sometimes I think about you and really miss the fun times we had. well ill stop now.
bye



ok thats all im posting not that I think about it lol


but seriously wtf....
 

Kuro Neko

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They wait because it digs into them, it's there always and bothersome as every loving relationship should be. So when it ends, if I would say, would be the biggest hurt of them all. So usually when they start bringing up the memories, it's because they finally blew up in emotion. Don't worry.
 

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but since you guys seems to care way to fucking much about fucking everything here
What? No.

Ugly girls dwell on old relationships. Most of us know how to move on to better things, so don't generalize.
 

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She'd love you forever if she knew you were posting something between you two on an Internet forum...especially one like this shithole. So...good one.

Why do they do this? Fuck if I know. Women have a tendency to hold onto things for a lot longer than we do though...everything that happens in their damn lives turns to emotional baggage. Grudges over simple shit can last for months, and don't you ever make a semi-major mistake cuz you'll be paying for it for life.

After 16 years of marriage...

GUY: "Honey, what's the matter? Why are you acting like this? You've been sullen and mean all week!"

GIRL: "Remember our first date? You made me pay for my own popcorn, you asshole! I don't know what's wrong with you! I HATE MEN!"

No exaggeration. I've seen it. Women hold onto shit forever. You can't break it out of them...it's just how they are. Just because you've pretty much forgotten her, doesn't mean she has. She's probably STILL replaying every single detail of your relationship over and over in her head, taking turns between being pissed out of her mind and depressed to all hell. This is all to be expected, just deal with it and keep going.
 

Kuro Neko

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I guess it also depends on the individual as well. Some others are stronger to move on and not let it bother them ( like Jenny ) and others are just sensitive to the matter in which they can't stand it.
 

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0ops found the reason....

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Yes I have a kid but there is nobody else in the picture. I 've been thinkin about you alot lately. I really do miss you. I hated leaving you in Florida, but once my parents were on heir way there was no stopping them. Just think about it.



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hahahahahahaahahhhaahahhahhhh omg fucking pownt!!!!
 

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0ops found the reason....

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Yes I have a kid but there is nobody else in the picture. I 've been thinkin about you alot lately. I really do miss you. I hated leaving you in Florida, but once my parents were on heir way there was no stopping them. Just think about it.



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hahahahahahaahahhhaahahhahhhh omg fucking pownt!!!!
haha she wants her a man to take care of it
 

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ok /end thread found reason she wants a baby daddy nowz
 

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roflmao ... hellllllllll no..... Why in the hell would I want a rebound breakup baby?


besides that shit is done... worn out.....
 

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She'd love you forever if she knew you were posting something between you two on an Internet forum...especially one like this shithole. So...good one.

Why do they do this? Fuck if I know. Women have a tendency to hold onto things for a lot longer than we do though...everything that happens in their damn lives turns to emotional baggage. Grudges over simple shit can last for months, and don't you ever make a semi-major mistake cuz you'll be paying for it for life.

After 16 years of marriage...

GUY: "Honey, what's the matter? Why are you acting like this? You've been sullen and mean all week!"

GIRL: "Remember our first date? You made me pay for my own popcorn, you asshole! I don't know what's wrong with you! I HATE MEN!"

No exaggeration. I've seen it. Women hold onto shit forever. You can't break it out of them...it's just how they are. Just because you've pretty much forgotten her, doesn't mean she has. She's probably STILL replaying every single detail of your relationship over and over in her head, taking turns between being pissed out of her mind and depressed to all hell. This is all to be expected, just deal with it and keep going.
listen to jafar. he knows stuff about girls
 

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actually from my last email he's kinda right....I emailed her one time to say nah im not mad gl in life short and sweet now im getting bombed with emails...bah..
 

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Just write back, typing like a robot. She'll get the message you died and you're programmed to LIVE LIFE!
 

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