What most people on the forums do is with their chars they have enough str for their gear, and enough dex for their charecters MB(Max Block). The rest of the points(for most non casters) goes into vit. The only exceptions to the last sentence are Sorceresses, and Necromancers, who require some point into eng.
abreviations:
Str=Strength
Dex=Dexterity
Vit=Vitality
Eng=Energy
If you want to see some bare stats of some chars, just PM me, and I'll send you a pic of what your stats could look like at a high lvl.