you cant freak out and start cutting yourself everytime you break up with someone. i know some very stable girls, but alot are not stable at all. they need to toughen up. thats all there is to it. i dont care why they cut themselves. that is unneeded information. my whole point is that if they cant handle the world then they need to toughen up, coz it aint gonna get any easier for them. and they will eventually learn that cutting yourself really doesnt do ANYTHING to actually solve the problem. all it does is makes you more depressed thinking your life is so shitty. im sick of this bullshit. people start cutting themselves coz"their life sucks" then they add that to their list of reasons why their life sucks. MAYBE IF YOU DONT PITY YOURSELF SO ****ING MUCH YOU WONT BE SAD