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ok guys lets make a long story short. I flirt with girls. lots of girls. ones im friends with. ones i dont know. i was on barz today and i flirted with this one girl i kinda know, shes cute i guess, but not exactly somethin i wanna stay with yaknow? well i ask her for a kiss and shes like "you gotta call me first" (i just got her # yesterday by flirting w/ her) and i was like "...what if i take a kiss instead?" and she smiles and says "well then i guess you take one" so without thinkin i lean over and kiss her, we wind up making out and whatnot yadi yadi yadah...ne ways after about 20 seconds i realized what i did, but by then it was too late.

my question: how do i break it to her nicely without hurting her feelings that i dont want to be with her? cause now shes all rubbin up on me and givin me a kiss goodbye n crap.
 

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[glow=red]Just tell her that you are not ready for a relationship. I ofcoruse would just tell her how it is, but if you care about feelings and crap then yeah tell her that you not ready for a relationship.[/glow]
 

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DragnSkull said:
cause now shes all rubbin up on me and givin me a kiss goodbye n crap.
I dont know even what to say.....in the nicest way I can think of saying this, but Asshole is the first word that pops into mind. You made out with her which gave her the impresssion you like her etc. I don't get why guys have a good relationship like that and throw it away.
 

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Would you people stop posting your ****ing girl problems here.
 

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@tatu: yes i know im an asshole. i was barred though so thats my excuse...

@beerslut: i respect you so dont think im arguing or tryin to start shit: chit chat= im chitchating about my problem :)
 

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raDixGhost said:
Tell her your a transvestite, and you actually have a vagina instead of a penis.
Think about the consequences of what would happen if she was into that kinda thing.......

Or, a better idea, Tea-bag the bitch in line, and tell her to sleep with the rest of the hoes for a week.
 

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Beer $lut said:
Would you people stop posting your ****ing girl problems here.
[glow=red]Why? Makes you sad then you realise that you never been with a girl?[/glow]
 

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[glow=red]Why? Makes you sad then you realise that you never been with a girl?[/glow]
Lol.

Dragn: Why the **** would you do that? How about you just go out with her? :p
 

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Tell it how it is, or maybe even take it a bit further. Tell her you need to talk to her (make it all serious-like) and then say to her "You know, I think you got the wrong impression about me... you see, I'm afraid of commitment, and I flirt too much, and uh... see where I'm going here?"

Hopefully, she'll get the jist of it from there.
 

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Kuzmich said:
[glow=red]Why? Makes you sad then you realise that you never been with a girl?[/glow]
No, because i don't give a shit about other peoples problems.
 

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Time to go to forum suggestion and post my idea for a BITCHING FORUM.

Anyway, you're not obligated to like the girl, you made a mistake and took it too far. You don't want her, tell her, she'll get over it. They always do.
 

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Beer $lut said:
Would you people stop posting your ****ing girl problems here.


Just because you don't care about the girl problems here doesn't mean you have to be a immature ass about it.



Dragnskull, I'd just go out with her. She likes you, so shes not exactly much to look at, but mybe she can make you happy with who she is and not her looks. You flrirted with her, so I can only see you going out with her and giving her a chance, It's only fair from what you dids to begin with. Be a nice guy. :)
 

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tell her your in the FBI and a csecret case came up and u have to travel to mexico?



ok,but seriously,just go out with her for like a week,then just stop calling her or something
 

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Say this

"Don't ever ****ing talk to me again or I'll kill your mom in her sleep"

Worked for Ashton Kutcher in Butterfly Effect...it should work for you
 

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Grieving Mendacity said:
Say this

"Don't ever ****ing talk to me again or I'll kill your mom in her sleep"

Worked for Ashton Kutcher in Butterfly Effect...it should work for you


Hahah, I guess it did. But that's messed up Mike. :p I still stand on my decision. She may be more then what you least expected, Dragnskull.



:lovedup
 

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DragnSkull said:
ok guys lets make a long story short. I flirt with girls. lots of girls. ones im friends with. ones i dont know. i was on barz today and i flirted with this one girl i kinda know, shes cute i guess, but not exactly somethin i wanna stay with yaknow? well i ask her for a kiss and shes like "you gotta call me first" (i just got her # yesterday by flirting w/ her) and i was like "...what if i take a kiss instead?" and she smiles and says "well then i guess you take one" so without thinkin i lean over and kiss her, we wind up making out and whatnot yadi yadi yadah...ne ways after about 20 seconds i realized what i did, but by then it was too late.

my question: how do i break it to her nicely without hurting her feelings that i dont want to be with her? cause now shes all rubbin up on me and givin me a kiss goodbye n crap.

agian, this is why the good lord made live journnals.
 

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Beer $lut said:
No, because i don't give a shit about other peoples problems.
[glow=red]If you don't then just don't post in this thread, no one is making you do it.[/glow]
 

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