Girl help

[LargeAlcoholic]

I dont know if this is a forum for talkin about issues or problems but i need some opinions. My exgirlfriend for a year broke up and i am moving on which is hard... shes with another boy, and I am looking, and its hard and im lonely alot, however there is this one girl who i asked to hang out and she said that she would love to hang out. She never got online and i never see her at school, we go to different directions in the halls... And i just feel bad cuz i dont see her that much and I like her alot, i would like to date her but im not sure if she likes me. Life is short, and im trying to not waste my time. What is your advice for being lonely, like what would ya do?

 

[Jason]

First off, LargeAlcoholic. <--Your first problem.

Second off, You need to find her, or her friends, figure out other places you can see her and go up to her and talk to her.

Get to know her more, and ease in the question of dating.

Never just go out with a girl for looks, that's ****ing retarded IMHO.

Just find her, and talk.

Besides, asking people here isn't a good idea.

Some of them are also lonely and/or will flame you.

 

[Sakuhta]

Roar... you confuse sakuhta... but anyways, yes, you need to find her and talk. Don't end up asking her on a date till' you guys seem somewhat frieds too, so that way on a date it's not awkward or uncomfortable.

 

[Mystery]

or you can buy some e-z friction lotion, and make your self not lonely by giving your penis your right hand for a while

 

[B~E]

Originally posted by VizjereiMage
First off, LargeAlcoholic. <--Your first problem.

Damnit, I was hoping to be the first one to point that out...

First of, of course this is the right forum to talk about this kind of issues. If there is a general forum out there where you can't share your personal problems, well, it must be a terrible forum.

Secondly, a good way to find out if a girl likes out, or to make her eventualy like you, is to find a common interest or two with her, and to do it a lot. And slowly but certainly, depending on how you act, she'll grow to like you, and you'll get promoted to "friend" statue.
Now, the hard part is to try to be more than that because friendship with women is great and fun and all, but we all know what it mean, sexwise.
Unless of couse your a part of that kind of teen who sounds as if they where strait out of "All my chirdrens" or "Bervely hills" or another soap opera, in which case we'll hate you.
Anyway, look out for the friend statue, because there is hardly a coming back from it. It hard to get promoted when she
wont dare to touch the fragile "friendly" relation.

Well, anyway, thats all I can make up for now, one can only divagate so much whenhe just found out how Illustrator work. Cheer !

 

[torrid mind]

Meh… life may be short but I don’t think trying to be with a girl you like is a waist of time.

 

[aphextwin]

OT: ^ agreed with torrid, just be a priest and god will forgive all your sin :O thats what im gonna do.... ill also rape lil boyz

OT: should this be in the arcane sanc?

OT: just be her "friend" but not bf/gf cuz whats teh point if ur gonna move? just talk to her on msn or sumthing 1nce in a while...

 

[VBadGirl]

well forget her...its over and u gotta accept that. when u are a teen love seems such a big thing and when u break up it seems that the world ended. well buddy i got news for ya..it isnt.

she will not be the last girl in ur life so...pffffft.

just go out with ur friends and have fun..even get some dvd's...life goes on. I am sure u will soon find another girl and another one..and another one...

 

[VegetaClam]

One word: Headlock.


-Vegeta Clam

 

[jd-inflames]

i would of suggested something like viz said. dont wuss out, just talk to her. become friends, just not too good of friends, girls are weird like that. make open suggestions of dating, then one day, make a subtle move. if she accepts shes yours, if she rejects, it was never ment to be

 

[Beer $lut]

Oh great another girl problem thread..

Your eventually going to get over her. Just go out with one of her friends that always works.

 

[jd-inflames]

lol, you mean bastard. id rather have someone that has not affiliation with the earlier chick...

 

[Beer $lut]

One time i went out with my ex girlfriends friend just for the ex but it all blew up in my face and i ended up liking her friend but she found out my evil plan

 

[jd-inflames]

so i take it that didnt end up well, =/ thats why i stay far away from that stuff

 

[Sakuhta]

Originally posted by VBadGirl
well forget her...its over and u gotta accept that. when u are a teen love seems such a big thing and when u break up it seems that the world ended. well buddy i got news for ya..it isnt.

she will not be the last girl in ur life so...pffffft.

just go out with ur friends and have fun..even get some dvd's...life goes on. I am sure u will soon find another girl and another one..and another one...

um... that has nothing to do with what he asked about... =/

 

[Thistle]

Originally posted by VegetaClam
One word: Headlock.

That would work.....

 

[jd-inflames]

thats more of a summit idea dont think that would actually do any good

 

[weiner_hat]

you could just forget it all and just live your life for a bit and then get into a great depression the get AIDsfrom a prostitute. id do that ^_^

 

[jd-inflames]

all sounds good cept the aids part. lets find a clean hooker only about 10 bucks extra

 

[weiner_hat]

hm...sounds good so we wouldnt have to pesture ourselves by going to the doctors every month. lets see where we can find LargeAlcoholic a hooker. =]