sorry guys, but 'fate and destiny' are a similar topic to 'God'. Fate and destiny are made up by those who are afraid of the future or need an explaination for some terrible event. "It was just his time." or "It was meant to happen." are phases the weak use to justify the things in everyones lives that they can't handle. i understand and have read the posts before about there being many destinies and that we choose which one blahblahblahblah, the thing is, people have made that junk up to conpensate with the growing times. People are starting to wake up and realize what they do is what they do and no one has a set schedule to do anything, your not destined to die one way or even a couple of ways, or to marry him or her. To some, it's scary 'cause they realize, "hey i could work and do good and still screw up!" for others it's liberating knowing that their success is not asured.
just throwing my opinions in the mixing pot
Originally posted by amrtin77
ive been wondering, do you really have a choice if it is known what you are going to choose? i dont get it..
I think you do, but if you only know what your going to choose what's the point? If there was a 'Fate,' that's what you'd need to know, not just your choice. Then you could change it, i suppose, but since i don't believe in fate, i really wouldn't want to change any choices i've made in my life, what's happened is what has happened, choices are only one part of life, there's the environment your in when you make a choice and the people, hell, even the weather changes things.
